Many Birth Mothers I have counseled. Are stuck. Stuck with a lot of unresolved anger towards Parents, Boyfriends, Ex-Boyfriends. Or even Husbands, or any person, family or friend. That they felt were not there for them through their crisis pregnancies Which lead them to feel abandoned, Lost, Hurt, Unfulfilled through out the hardest nine months of their lives. I have counseled woman now in there sixties that have had to endure what many of us know is called the BIG SECRET! Because unwed Mothers most often in the 1950's through even the 1980's. The unwed mothers were sent off to maternity homes. Friends and relatives in there community were told they were visiting an Aunt, or Grandma or some relative. When actually they were sent off to have their babies to be given up for adoption. Then they returned home to their families with no support. Just told you will forget, MOVE ON with your life. Told to act like nothing ever happened. Be good little girls, go on to college. But don't tell a soul about your shameful secret. Society made this a SHAMEFUL Holier than thou secret. I am a Christian, and the God I worship is about LIFE. God seen where we needed a redeemer! Therefore he sent his only begotten son to shed his "LIFE" on the cross, To be resurrected, So we could have ever lasting life. If we pray the sinners prayer and are Baptized in to Christ Jesus as our Lord and Savior. I for one worship an all Merciful, Forgiving, Loving God.
Are you harboring or unforgiving now? For the events that occurred many years ago. You could be unforgiving unto yourself. Apply this to your life now - Change occurs when the pain to change the pain is less than the pain is to remain the same. How long are you going to hold on to the PAIN? The Bitterness? But you say, Lucy, It's all I know! I've hurt so long, this I feel is familiar. I can tell you this the grass is so much greener on the other side of forgiveness. The sky is bluer, Life is sweeter. I want you to read Colossians 3:13 in the picture above. Several times a day. As a Christian you will begin to feel Christ Jesus's Mighty cleansing healing. Just by letting go and letting God. Look at yourself really deeply, all the flaws and all the ugly. Yet Jesus has never forsaken nor turned his back on you. He loves every flaw, he takes you everyday just as you are, In his eyes you are His BEAUTIFUL Creation. So if you have any unforgiving inside your soul. Daily read Collosians 3:13. Pray unto him to heal you so that you can move on. Someday you might reunite with that bson or bdaughter. Prepare yourself now, Or if you already have reunited. It's always good to work on yourself in any area's of unforgiving. By forgiving others you set yourself free. What a blessing it is to be free in this world. Of so much evil and worldly people. Choose the simple, humble, non prideful life. You will feel so much better, Living and Loving life with Christ Jesus. By
