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Sunday, June 17, 2012

5 Simple Rules for a HAPPY LIFE

God Has A Plan

"Just Call On God!"


I can  honestly say.  If I had not had God to walk with me through my Crisis Pregnancy in 1980.  I would not be writing this blog today.  For as a Christian I knew deep in my heart that the Lord Almighty "Jesus" would give me the strength that I needed.  Emotionally, as well as physically to have the best pregnancy possible.  For I had all that I needed. For I had GOD!  I stood strong on his promises.  That he would see to it that by honoring him through out my pregnancy.  He would bless my unborn baby with good health.  She was indeed born "PERFECT".  A beautiful healthy perfect "Child of God"  As she now does call herself often she tells me she is God's Child.  I have strong Faith in my Lord and Savior.  He protected she and I back then, and He still does today.  I remember like it was yesterday the trails and the pain I felt.  The tears I shed, How my heart bled.  The grief, It was all normal. What I felt then.  For I as the scripture says in

Psalm 139:14-20

New King James Version (NKJV)
14 I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
Marvelous are Your works,
And that my soul knows very well.
15 My frame was not hidden from You,
When I was made in secret,
And skillfully wrought in the lowest parts of the earth.
16 Your eyes saw my substance, being yet unformed.
And in Your book they all were written,
The days fashioned for me,
When as yet there were none of them.
17 How precious also are Your thoughts to me, O God!
How great is the sum of them!
18 If I should count them, they would be more in number than the sand;
When I awake, I am still with You.

Often I did read this scripture.  For it validated the very reason that I did carry this blessing, By keeping in constant communication with God, I felt his LOVE for my unborn child as well as myself.   This "Child of God".  We are all made and created in the secret place of our Mothers womb. By the Almighty!  So what ever you are dealing with.  What ever your storm looks like.  It's not to LARGE for the KING.  Call on GOD!  Then trust with all your heart. That he will deliver you.  Understand that his ways are not our ways.  His timing is just that.  His timing is when the TIME is right for you to receive the blessing. Don't go on your own agenda's.  Be patient. Keenly watch, and you will be truly amazed what the Almighty can do with your "LIFE". If you will give it all to him.  He can move Mountains, We can not.  He can rescue you from the evils of this world.  You can not.  So if you have lost your way, or if you are in need "JUST CALL ON GOD!"  He is patiently waiting for your call.  

The other scripture I've held onto that My own Mother shared with me and lived her life by was,

Philippians 4:13

New King James Version (NKJV)
13 I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
                          
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Sunday, June 10, 2012

Your Past.........


Are you a Birth Mother Stuck and unforgiving?


Many Birth Mothers I have counseled. Are stuck. Stuck with a lot of unresolved anger towards Parents, Boyfriends, Ex-Boyfriends. Or even Husbands, or any person, family or friend. That they felt were not there for them through their crisis pregnancies  Which lead them to feel abandoned, Lost, Hurt, Unfulfilled through out the hardest nine months of their lives.  I have counseled woman now in there sixties that have had to endure what many of us know is called the BIG SECRET!  Because unwed Mothers most often in the 1950's through even the 1980's.  The unwed mothers were sent off to maternity homes.  Friends and relatives in there community were told they were visiting an Aunt, or Grandma or some relative. When actually they were sent off to have their babies to be given up for adoption. Then they returned home to their families with no support. Just told you will forget, MOVE ON with your life. Told to act like nothing ever happened.  Be good little girls, go on to college.  But don't tell a soul about your shameful secret.   Society made this a SHAMEFUL Holier than thou secret.  I am a Christian, and the God I worship is about LIFE. God seen where we needed a redeemer!  Therefore he sent his only begotten son to shed his "LIFE" on the cross, To be resurrected, So we could have ever lasting life.  If we pray the sinners prayer and are Baptized in to Christ Jesus as our Lord and Savior.   I for one worship an all Merciful, Forgiving, Loving God.

Are you harboring or unforgiving now?  For the events that occurred many years ago.  You could be unforgiving unto yourself.  Apply this to your life now - Change occurs when the pain to change the pain is less than the pain is to remain the same.  How long are you going to hold on to the PAIN?  The Bitterness?  But you say, Lucy, It's all I know!  I've hurt so long, this I feel is familiar.  I can tell you this the grass is so much greener on the other side of forgiveness.  The sky is bluer, Life is sweeter.  I want you to read Colossians 3:13 in the picture above. Several times a day.  As a Christian you will begin to feel Christ Jesus's Mighty cleansing healing.  Just by letting go and letting God.  Look at yourself really deeply, all the flaws and all the ugly.  Yet Jesus has never forsaken nor turned his back on you. He loves every flaw, he takes you everyday just as you are, In his eyes you are His BEAUTIFUL Creation.  So if you have any unforgiving inside your soul.  Daily read Collosians 3:13.  Pray unto him to heal you so that you can move on.  Someday you might reunite with that bson or bdaughter.  Prepare yourself now, Or if you already have reunited.  It's always good to work on yourself in any area's of unforgiving.  By forgiving others you set yourself free. What a blessing it is to be free in this world.  Of so much evil and worldly people. Choose the simple, humble, non prideful life.  You will feel so much better, Living and Loving life with Christ Jesus.        By